When you meet a guy and feel attracted to him, it's all about physical image, curiosity to unknown and sex, isn't it? You see them, feel the chemistry, and it’s electrifying. You have yet to see his real humanity sides - anger, sadness, annoying habits, silly behaviors, etc. But everything you see in him is new and exciting, and the sexual energy is high. 

Life is funny because when he's your match, your higher power tells you to fall in love, be together, and grow old together.

Physical Attraction and Sex

At first, you spend a lot of time exploring each other. You discover what turns your partner on, try new things in bed, and enjoy each other’s bodies. This physical connection is the foundation for a deeper emotional bond. Maintaining a good sexual relationship matters as you grow older together.

Keeping the sexual spark alive takes effort. As time passes, your bodies change, and so do your sexual preferences. You might talk about your desires regularly. Trying new things and not being afraid to experiment keeps the excitement going. Make time for each other and don’t let routine kill the passion.

Also the little things - spontaneous touch, a surprise kiss, or an unexpected compliment make a big difference and remind you of the physical attraction that brought you together. 

Spontaneity plays a big role in keeping the flame alive. Even small, unexpected acts of affection can reignite the initial spark. Planning surprise dates or weekend getaways can also help break the routine. It’s not about grand gestures but about consistently showing that you find each other attractive and desirable.

You both adapt to changes in sexual desire as you age. Of all the life decisions that you need to make together - work, mortgage, shopping, entertainment - it's hard to keep your lust for each other. No matter how old you get, sex life should be no less meaningful, but in real life, what was exciting in sex will diminish dramatically over time.

Having a Proper Relationship

When you start to see each other, it's only natural that you're forming a deeper connection beyond physical attraction. You talk about your expectations and future plans, trying to align your paths and see if your values match. 

You spend quality time together, share hobbies, and support each other in personal growth. You often deal with conflicts and find ways to resolve them together. You learn to compromise and understand each other’s perspectives. You build an emotional foundation to move through the later stages of your relationship.

Of course, all this is done while establishing routines - a weekly date night, a shared hobby, cooking together, binge-watching, or simple daily rituals. You create a new set of normalcy.

Disagreements are natural, you compromise constructively - not avoiding conflicts but addressing them in a way that strengthens your connection rather than weakens it.

Planning for a house, saving for travel, or preparing for retirement, the discussions ensure you’re both on the same page. When you think about the planning, most of it is to do with financial stuff. After all, how you get settled together, your security is a foundation of a stable relationship. The moment you think, this is it, no more adventure, no more sleeping around, he is the one...you think about the financial situation seriously.

Two Men Need to Love and Be Loved – Both Sexually and Non-Sexually

Alright, let’s get straight to the point. Two men in love need to show it in two ways: sexually and non-sexually. This means not just saying "I love you" but actually give love actions. Have sex like you mean it. Put some effort into it. Take every ounce of his juices. This is no longer a lust, but this is to making sure you and your partner have truly become one in the bedroom.

Outside of sex, it's the little things that matter. Hold hands, give hugs, and say nice things to each other. These small acts make a big difference in feeling loved and appreciated. Talk to each other and keep asking what each other wants. Make time for each other, show appreciation for each other daily. A small thank you or a compliment can go a long way. Acts of service, like cooking a meal or helping with chores, also show love. When both partners actively show love and appreciation, it strengthens the bond and ensures both feel loved.

Loving Each Other is Not Enough for Esteem

Esteem is about feeling respected. This means recognizing each other's achievements. It’s about being each other’s biggest cheerleaders. Love alone doesn’t cover the need for personal growth and self-worth.

Respect is a big deal. Listen to each other, value each other’s opinions, and give space for individuality. When you respect each other’s views and contributions, it makes both partners feel important and confident. Acknowledge each other’s efforts and successes, no matter how small. This helps build self-esteem.

Encourage each other to have hobbies and interests outside the relationship. Support each other’s personal growth. By doing this, you help boost each other's self-worth, creating a balanced and supportive dynamic. Love, combined with respect and encouragement, helps both partners thrive.

Esteem also comes from feeling competent and successful. Help each other set and achieve goals. The shared support in p

Be proud of your partner and expressing that pride. Let them know you see and appreciate their hard work and successes. This acknowledgment builds their self-esteem and reinforces the strength of your relationship.

Self-Actualization Through Growing Old Together, Dying Together

Self-actualization is about being the best you can be. For a couple, this means supporting each other’s dreams and goals as you grow old together. Keep challenging and supporting each other. Find joy in your shared experiences and mutual growth.

As you face getting older and eventually dying, your bond becomes a source of strength. The idea of growing old and facing the end of life together can be scary, but it also brings you closer. You share a life full of experiences, love, and respect, which prepares you for this final stage.

Facing the end together is the ultimate expression of your commitment - the journey towards the end solidifies your bond, making sure your love story is about facing everything life throws at you, including the end, as a united front.

Look forward to new adventures even in old age. Whether it’s traveling, picking up new hobbies, or simply enjoying each other’s company, these activities keep your relationship vibrant. Plan for the future, make new memories, and continue to grow together.

Reflecting on your life together brings a sense of completion. You remember the good times, and hold onto the love that has carried you through. To be there for each other through life’s final chapter is the deepest expression of love and dedication.

Being each other’s source of comfort and strength as you age and face life’s final stages together shows the true depth of your relationship. It’s about holding each other’s hands through every moment, ensuring that you both feel loved and valued until the very end.