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August

All We Ever Wanted Was Everything

by Joe Stammer // in Life

Why do we seek everything? We often chase desires as if they’re the key to something bigger, something final, something that will bring us to a point of arrival. But when we get what we thought we wanted, was it really what we were seeking? Or is the pursuit itself our real companion?

All We Ever Wanted Was Everything

What Is Everything, Really?

What do we mean when we say "everything"? Is it the complete collection of desires fulfilled, or is it the quiet moments that slip between achievements? How do we define something as elusive as “everything,” and who decides what it contains?

  • Is everything measurable? Can the essence of all we seek be reduced to numbers - money, milestones, possessions - or is it something less tangible, like the fleeting sense of contentment or a simple feeling of being at ease?

  • Does having everything mean anything? Once we claim to have everything, does it still hold meaning, or does it become another empty term in a constantly shifting horizon of wants?

  • Who defines what everything should be? Do we set our desires based on what others chase, or do we know what we really want? Are we pursuing what we’ve been told matters, rather than what quietly calls to us?

In Bauhaus design, "everything" isn’t about filling spaces with endless decorations; it’s about focusing on simple, functional forms that do their job well. Having "everything" might mean having just what you need, nothing more, nothing less.

The idea of everything is both clear and blurry, like a mirage that changes shape the closer we get. Perhaps the question isn’t what everything is, but whether it is something we really need at all.

Why Do We Always Want More?

Why Do We Always Want More

Why Do We Always Want More?

Where does this insatiable desire for more come from? Is it rooted in fear of missing out, in dissatisfaction with the present, or simply in the nature of being human? Can there ever be enough, or does the desire itself keep growing the more it’s fed?

Like how Bauhaus evolved by pushing boundaries in design, we’re always looking for the next improvement, thinking it’ll complete the picture. We often believe that adding more - features, elements, or items - will bring us closer to the ideal.

  • Does more ever end? We often think that getting more will eventually lead to a point where we stop wanting. But does that point ever come, or does it just keep moving further away?

  • Is the search for more a distraction? When we keep pushing forward in pursuit of something greater, are we really engaging with life, or are we using the chase to avoid what’s here right now?

  • What happens when we stop wanting? If we pause and let go of the desire for more, what would fill that space? Is it emptiness, or is there something unexpected waiting in that silence?

Perhaps our constant drive for more isn't something to resolve but rather something to observe. Maybe there is no destination, just the ongoing rhythm of desire, action, and reflection.

Does Satisfaction Last?

When we finally get what we’ve been craving, why does satisfaction fade so quickly? Is contentment always brief, or is it possible that we’re looking for it in the wrong places? What is the nature of satisfaction - fleeting by design, or misunderstood by our expectations?

  • Is satisfaction a moment, not a state? We might think of satisfaction as something lasting, but maybe it’s just a brief moment that arises and passes, like a breath or a thought.

  • Does satisfaction depend on comparison? Do we feel satisfied only in contrast to what others have or lack? Is our contentment tied to the differences we perceive between ourselves and others?

  • What if satisfaction isn’t meant to last? If satisfaction is temporary, perhaps we’re not supposed to hold onto it. Is it possible that the pursuit of lasting satisfaction is what actually makes us unsatisfied?

Satisfaction may be less about holding onto a feeling and more about noticing when it appears and when it fades. Maybe it’s not meant to be captured, only noticed and then let go.

In Bauhaus, once a design is stripped to its essentials, there’s a brief satisfaction, but then the search begins again for further refinement. Satisfaction often fades because the simplicity achieved makes room for new ideas and desires.

How Do We Know When We Have Enough?

How Do We Know When We Have Enough?

When does the pursuit end? How do we recognize the point where we can say, "This is enough"? Is there ever a clear line, or is it more of a subtle recognition, something felt rather than measured? What is the sensation of “enough,” and can we trust it when it arises?

  • Is enough a decision or a realization? Do we consciously decide what’s enough, or does it emerge quietly when we stop chasing more?

  • Does enough require contentment? Can we feel that we have enough without being entirely content? Is it possible to sense that there’s nothing more needed, even if we’re not perfectly happy?

  • What if enough isn’t about quantity? Maybe “enough” is not about how much we have but rather how at peace we are with what’s here, whether it’s little or a lot.

Bauhaus design stops adding when function meets form perfectly, knowing that more would only clutter or distract. Knowing we have enough might be when what’s there works without needing anything extra.

Finding enough might be less about counting what we have and more about noticing the absence of yearning. When the desire for more fades, does that signal that we have reached a place of enough?

Is Perfection a Trap?

Why do we chase perfection when it often feels like an unattainable ideal? Does the pursuit of perfection distract us from what’s real, or does it keep us motivated? What would happen if we stopped seeking perfection altogether?

  • Is perfection ever attainable? Even if we achieve something that looks perfect from the outside, does it feel that way from within? Or does the perfect image hide a sense of unease?

  • Does perfection take away the joy of the process? When we fixate on getting everything right, do we lose the sense of play, discovery, and spontaneity that comes with embracing what’s imperfect?

  • What happens when we accept imperfections? If we stop aiming for perfection, do we find more ease in the messiness of life? Does letting go of the perfect make space for something more real?

Maybe perfection isn’t the goal but rather a mirage that keeps us moving forward. The flaws and missteps might hold more truth and meaning than the polished image we imagine perfection to be.

Can We Find Freedom in Letting Go?

What if the secret to having everything is in letting go of the desire for it? When we release the grip of wanting, what is left? Is it emptiness, or is there something more fulfilling than the pursuit itself? How does letting go change our experience of life?

Bauhaus teaches that chasing perfection by endlessly tweaking designs can lead to overcomplication, losing sight of simplicity. Perfection is a trap when it makes us forget the purpose behind what we’re creating.

  • What if letting go is a gain? We often think of letting go as a loss, but could it be that in letting go, we actually gain freedom from the pressures we put on ourselves?

  • Does letting go create space? When we stop holding onto desires so tightly, do we find more space for what really matters, even if it’s not what we originally wanted?

  • Is letting go an end or a beginning? Could letting go be less about giving up and more about opening to new possibilities that were previously hidden by our fixed ideas of what we wanted?

By letting go of unnecessary details, Bauhaus found freedom in minimalism, focusing only on what’s essential. Freedom often comes from releasing what isn’t working or needed, allowing space for clarity. In that release, maybe we find something unexpected - maybe even the sense of having everything without needing it.

What Do We Truly Want?

What Do We Truly Want?

When we strip away the surface-level desires - money, success, recognition - what’s left? What is it that we’re really seeking underneath it all? Is it connection, peace, fulfillment? Are these things actually dependent on achieving everything, or are they available to us now, just hidden beneath our constant striving?

  • Is what we want already within reach? What if the things we seek aren’t external but already present, waiting for us to notice them? Is it possible that in chasing everything, we overlook what’s already here?

  • Do our desires hide deeper needs? Are the things we chase masking deeper needs for connection, purpose, or self-acceptance? What happens when we look beyond the surface wants?

  • Can we want less and find more? When we reduce our desires, does life feel richer? Does simplifying what we want actually give us more of what we were searching for in the first place?

Sometimes, the search for everything leads us back to where we started, only with a different perspective. Perhaps what we truly want was never outside of us at all.

Bauhaus shows that what we really want might be simplicity, functionality, and elegance - things that solve problems without excess. Often, it’s not more stuff, but solutions that work well and look good.

Is It Possible to Be Content with Imperfection?

In the end, does contentment come from getting what we want or from accepting what is? Is it possible that everything we seek is found in the imperfections of life rather than in achieving an ideal state? How do we sit comfortably with life’s messiness and find peace in it?

  • Can we find beauty in the flawed? When we look closely, do we see that the imperfections add depth and texture to our experiences? Is there beauty in what’s unfinished or imperfect?

  • Does acceptance bring ease? If we stop resisting what is, do we find a sense of ease that we were searching for in all the wrong places?

  • Is imperfection more real? Could it be that imperfection holds more truth, more authenticity than perfection ever could? What happens when we feel perfectly fine with the cracks, the mess, the disorder?

Maybe the idea of everything is flawed by design. Perhaps it’s in the cracks and imperfections that we find what we were truly searching for all along. Bauhaus was full of imperfections in handmade designs, recognizing that slight flaws added character and uniqueness. Being content with imperfection means appreciating that life’s quirks and variations make things more interesting.

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About the author 

Joe Stammer

I'm an ex-narcotic with a stutter, dedicated to helping drug addicts on their path to recovery through writing. I offer empathy and guidance to those who are struggling, fostering hope and resilience in their pursuit of a substance-free life. My message to those struggling is simple - seek help, don't waste your life, and find true happiness.

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